She’s very self-conscious about it, but I find it’s the same as nipples or lips can be. “ I go out of my way to look at my girlfriend’s butthole because I find it so aesthetically pleasing, especially during doggy. There’s never really a moment where my butthole is, like, ‘exposed’ in the same way, so I’ve never really had to consider that, but I probably wouldn’t be confident in letting them see mine.” - Liam, 20ģ. Personally, I’m not into anal play, so it’s not necessarily a turn-on, but it’s not a turn-off. It doesn’t take anything away from the experience or influence it in any way, it’s just kinda there. If it was more of a tightly manicured lawn than an untamed jungle, maybe I wouldn’t mind, but I don’t think I want partners seeing mine.” - Sam, 24Ģ. As for my butthole, I don’t think it’s visible-it’s pretty hairy down there. It was an excellent gauge of how I was doing, because it’d flex and contract when she was feeling good.
“I definitely notice buttholes during sex, although I’ve only had a few partners who liked positions that exposed their butts. So let’s declare this a “no judgment zone” during sex, shall we? Because no one really gives a shit about your butt, their butt.everyone’s just there to have a good time.ġ. What’s interesting though: When asked about their own buttholes, it’s clear that some of these dudes have a lil bit of ass insecurity of their own.
